Don’t keep scolding him. He will rebel even more. Children’s minds are all like that. (Yes, he won’t listen.) Young people are all like that. The more you scold him and force him, the more he rebels and makes you look bad. […] You have to understand your child more. (Yes.) They are young. They don’t have enough endurance, (Yes.) or enough experience. That’s why sometimes their way of doing things makes your heart ache. (Yes.) But he’s not doing them on purpose. Remember when we were young? We all forgot. When we were young, we were also so careless and so stubborn like that, more emotionally sensitive. Therefore, you have to train him more, to be more patient, love him more and help him grow. And do things with him, work with him, and try to understand his feelings more. Why doesn’t he want to study? What he says on the outside isn’t everything. Is there other pressure on the inside? There are other reasons. Talk with him more. (Yes.) Trust him like a friend. Then he’ll eat more and meditate better as well. And he’ll do better in exams. […]
Since it’s over, don’t think about it again. Otherwise, you’d be immersed in that kind of feeling. Then of course, the more you’re immersed, the more you think; and the more you think, the more you’re scared. Now you know, we have fellow initiates. We have a good method and a good Master. You always carry my photo, and a “Walkman” to listen to my teachings, my tapes and music. Find good movies to watch. And you may read those positive and interesting books. Make friends with positive people. […] Do constructive work, helping others. Then, you’ll have no time for silly thoughts.
We don’t know each other. I don’t owe you anything. I don’t take any money from you. Still, I endeavor to make you happy. I do whatever I can for you, and also for other people. Be it strangers or poor people, I will also try my best to help. If people have problems mentally, I also try my best to help. If you have any questions about your spiritual practice, I will also answer you with all I know. So I am a good person. Why am I bad? And I’m so pretty. (I know that Master is the greatest benefactor of my life. And so each time I had those bad thoughts, I’d have a very guilty feeling.) No need. No need to think about guilt again. Just pull yourself back. Think about those good qualities that I said I have, then it’s OK. […]
